Sunday, 8 December 2024

God Meant It For Good by R T Kendall - Starting a New Life


 

GOD MEANT IT FOR GOOD - CHAPTER 5

STARTING A NEW LIFE

Joseph was suddenly placed in a strange new country, forced to cope with unwanted new beginnings.  Born with a silver spoon in his mouth, Joseph was now a slave.  The Ishmaelites owned him for a while, but later sold him to a man called Potiphar.  Potiphar was an Egyptian, a high ranking officer in Pharoah’s army, a man of class and prestige.  He had wealth but also perception.

 

“God loves every man as though there were no one else to love.” St Augustine

 

God also prepares every man as though there were no one else.  Joseph never asked for this preparation.  He was forced to start a new life as a way of being prepared for future service.  A great upheaval had taken place.  Everything was happening so rapidly.  Now we find him in Egypt, cut off from all the people and surroundings he had ever known.

 

Joseph was being irrevocably emancipated from his past.  He could not go back.  It would not do any good even to daydream about returning.  Joseph could not dream about going back to Canaan.

 

God does us an enormous favour when he makes us see we simply cannot return.  Sometimes we are at a standstill because we are still hoping somehow to go back to things as they once were.  We can waste days and months, possibly years trying to go back.  Joseph could not because God prevented him.

 

This is so very true – how many times have I not daydreamed to go back to the way things once were before I made a mistake.  But I cannot return, what is past is past and will never be that way again.  It is hard to learn that I have to move on.

 

Now Joseph was in phase 2 of his preparation.  Phase 1 had been falling into the pit, being rescued in time and kept alive.  Phase 2 could almost be called the “fun part”.  When God makes us break from the past, he puts something in its place to make things not only bearable but also even pleasant.

 

Really?  I cannot really say that at this moment in time I am in a happy place.  I do not really believe right now that I could be happy again … and yet is this because I am preventing my own happiness?  Maybe I am not allowing God to let me be happy.  Strange isn’t it.

 

God does not want us to be unhappy.  He wants us to get joy not only from him, but also from the provisions that he gives us.  And God does this to encourage us to go on.

 

There were 3 ways in which God made things bearable for Joseph. 

 

First Joseph had rest from his enemies.  He had a rough time.  True, he brought a lot of it on himself, but he had become a victim of cruel hatred.  There came a time when God said, “Enough is enough”.  God knows how much we can bear.  There comes a time when he looks down from heaven and lets us know he sees what we are going through. 

 

Paul said, “There hath no temptation (or trial) taken you but such as is common to man” (1 Corinthians 10 verse 13).  This means that others have been through it before.  It could be that what we are going through seems unique in the history of man.  We all tend to think that about ourselves.  But Paul said that is not true.  God will not put us through any temptation that has not been experienced by others.  “But God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that he may be able to bear it.” 1 Corinthians 10 verse 13

 

Now Joseph was given rest from his enemies.  He was able to live free from the kind of terror, jealousy and hatred he had known.  He was not overjoyed about being in Egypt, but at least he did not have that terror.

 

The second thing that made all this bearable – and this is the main thing – Joseph had the presence of the Lord.  “And the Lord was with Joseph” Genesis 39 verse 2.  Now this had been true before.  Joseph had felt the presence of the Lord before.  But perhaps he had not felt it that much.  There is a sense in which he had not needed it before now.  He had his father to whom he could always turn.  If he was ever in trouble, he did not turn to the Lord. 

 

I have been brought to the place where I have needed God alone.  That is when I felt the presence of God.  That was when I cried to God and really experienced the nearness of God like never before.  This has been my experience over the past year in particular.  God has become so very real to me and meaningful as I have drawn close to him through his word every day.

 

God wants us to feel him!  When God selects a man for a mission, high on God’s agenda will be that he alone must become precious.  This is why he makes us break with our past.  So that for the first time we will really know what God is like!

 

There was a third thing that made things bearable, even pleasant for Joseph.  He prospered in his new career.  There is only one explanation for this: God did it to encourage him.  If God wanted to, he could have brought Joseph to Egypt and let him live in the dust.  There was a dungeon not far away that Joseph would eventually inhabit but he could not take that yet.  God knew that.  God knew Joseph needed a time to be encouraged, otherwise he might have been demoralised.  God never demoralizes us.

 

I honestly have never thought about this – Joseph could have easily ended up in prison as soon as he arrived in Egypt but God allowed him an alternative life.  This is amazing – to realise that God orchestrated all of this for his purposes.

 

Joseph would be tested, however, to see if he would put his most cherished gift in suspension.  God put it on the shelf for a little while. 

 

God knew Joseph had other gifts.  Joseph’s other abilities would never have emerged if he had not had a new job like this.  Joseph had other gifts and they had to come out.  We are talking about a man who was destined to be the future governor of Egypt.  Although he did not know that, God did.  Joseph did not know that starting at the bottom of Potiphar’s household was preparing him to be governor of Egypt.  We do not know what God is preparing for us.  Who knows what God will do with us.  It may be that we will use a gift we did not know we had.  We will never discover it as long as we are concentrating on the only thing we think we are good at.

 

Joseph needed to learn the graces of his new culture in his new country, and Potiphar would be his model.  Potiphar was a man of class and prestige, a man of wealth who had the sort of skills and qualities that would be required of a governor.  Joseph merely said to himself, “I am going to obey this man.  I will do what he says.”  Joseph could not help noticing Potiphar’s mannerisms.  Potiphar would be his model, and Joseph, no doubt, vowed early on that he would make the most of everything in this new situation.

 

It is important to remember that Joseph started at the bottom.  Genesis 39 verse 2 shows that Joseph was elevated to live in the house of his master.  Imagine living in the house itself!  There were quarters for the slaves far from the master’s own house.

 

Again a point I never realised – there was a period of time involved here.  It took Joseph time to work into a position of trust and into the house of his master.  God was working everything else out in his way.

 

Moreover, Potiphar saw that “the Lord was with him” Genesis 39 verse 3.  Verse 2 says that the Lord was with Joseph.  Verse 3 says, “His master saw that the Lord was with him.”  We are talking about a godless Egyptian who saw that the Lord was with Joseph.  There are 2 Hebrew words for Lord.  One is Yahweh and the other is Adonai.  Yahweh was God’s special revelation of his name to his people only.  In Egypt they would know nothing of Yahweh.  They had never heard of a God like that.  But we are told that Potiphar, this godless Egyptian, knew that Yahweh was with Joseph.  How could that be?  Well, there is only one way.  Joseph told him.  At some point, Joseph talked about his God.

 

That could have put Potiphar right off, but it did not because Potiphar recognised in Joseph something so unusual that it commanded his attention.  He may or may not have liked what he heard, but he thought, “well I am interested in this.”  Except perhaps for his great grandfather Abraham who had visited Egypt earlier, Joseph was the first worshiper of the true God to live in Egypt.  This meant that Joseph would be watched by Potiphar to see what became of a man who made a profession like that.

 

There is a right way and a wrong way to witness on the job. 

 

What a challenge for me personally – do people see and know a difference in my attitude to work.  Am I hard working, conscientious? 

 

One indication the Lord was with Joseph was the way he adjusted to his new surroundings.  Potiphar must have known that this way of life was not easy for Joseph, because he had never had to work.  Potiphar could merely look at Joseph and tell.  He could feel his hands – they were not rough.  He could look  at his face – it was not weather-beaten.  Clearly Joseph had not lived a rough life.  But look at Joseph now – he had to start at the bottom and work his way up.

 

Another explanation for Joseph’s prosperity was he excelled partly because this new life meant comparatively little to him.  He was quite detached from what he was doing.  First he was attached to the Lord.  Second his heart and ambition were elsewhere.  People who are too attached to their own surroundings sometimes are not as effective as they could be.  Egypt meant nothing to Joseph; therefore he did not get so personally or emotionally involved that his struggles became counter-productive.

 

God does not want us to like our surroundings too much.  Those servants around Joseph would have given anything in the world to be living in Potiphar’s house.  It did not mean that much to Joseph, though.  Partly because he was in this strange country.  Joseph did not take himself all that seriously.  After all, there was not anybody there that knew him.  There is little delight in being exalted if nobody knows and recognises us.  Now if he could have shared it with his 11 brothers, that would have done something for him.

 

What was Joseph’s ambition?  More than anything else in the world, he wanted vindication before his brothers.  But that appeared to be an unreachable goal.  Sometimes God gives some of us an unreachable aspiration so what we do attain does not go to our heads.  Perhaps Potiphar could also see this in Joseph.

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